5 Tips for Balancing Work, Life, and Family: For Ambitious Stay at Home Moms 2

5 Tips for Balancing Work, Life, and Family: For Ambitious Stay at Home Moms

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In 2015, I had ambitions of completing my bachelor’s degree (psychology, if you’re curious).

And at the time, I struggled mightily with balancing life, work, and parenting. This post outlines those struggles and methods that I attempted to use. Sometimes I had to wonder where I was going to find the time to fit everything in. And then I also had to realize that sometimes it’s just okay to let it go. My priorities started to shift and slowly, but surely, everything started to fall into place.

Now, I could very well call this post – my word for the New Year. But my word for the New Year is growth. This word, on the other hand, is not just for the New Year but a life word- balance. Along the way, I’ll share my own 5 tips for balancing life, work, and parenting.

Balancing work, life, and parenting can be difficult. Here are 5 tips that I've learned to balance life, work, and being a mom.

5 Tips for Balancing your Life to make the most of your time and still enjoy all that life has to offer

Is work/life balance really possible as a stay at home/work at home mom?

In short? No. 

As I was writing this post, I was attempting to balance two hats- mom and blogger.

Squeaker was sitting on my lap attempting to have the rest of her snack and me, well I’m half attempting to feed her and write this post. Advisable? Not really.

Ideally, she would be in her high chair and I would be saving this post for later. But, since she just recently woke up from her nap, having her sit on my lap is easier on her as far as the transition and less stressful for her as well. She’s not a huge fan of confinement anyway and can only tolerate her high chair for so long.

There are days, I admit, that I’m ready to just turn aside one of these hats and to just set it on the shelf until I can fully commit. I can’t do that with motherhood nor can I really do that with being a student. I’ve contemplated, on more than one occasion, doing that with blogging. But… I don’t want to quite give that up either. So what can I do instead? I can find balance.

I know that after I’m finished with school and back in the working community, I’ll have another balancing act- but I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.

5 Tips for Balancing Your Life

1- If you’re like me and happen to be a visual person, invest in a good planner or two.


I have two planners- one that I use to organize my personal life/family life and one that I use to organize my blog life. I keep them separate for a few reasons… the main one being so that I can remind myself to keep blogging separate from everything else. Another reason I keep them separate is because otherwise I’ll end up with a jumbled mess and for me that just doesn’t work at all. So how do I use these planners?

My personal life/family life planner includes the due dates for my school assignments, doctor’s appointments, anything Sweet B related (IEP, CSE, the works), birthdays, etc. It’s quite simple really and it’s a daily planner that gives me a monthly view where I can jot down quick notes. It also gives my daily view where I can write down things a bit more specific.

Another planner that we’re hoping to really start implementing is a meal planner. As it stands right now, we have three days where we cook (usually Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday) while the rest of the week we have leftovers.

I also rely on CoSchedule for my editorial calendar. At the end of the month, I start planning for next month. I’ll take a look at holidays and observances, what a month is designated for (Black History, Dental Health, etc) and also what types of food holidays are coming up (thank you Type A Parent). If I have an ongoing series (School with Squeaker, Autism and Afterschooling, Fitness at Home), I’ll start thinking about what I can do next.

Each day I try to designate for certain categories and plan to be consistent with it. That doesn’t always go to my liking, but I also make it a goal to cover at least one of my topics per day.

Except Sunday. I don’t do any blog related work on Sunday. I also use my planner to help me with social media stuff.

2- Scheduling your time, in some ways, could definitely go hand in hand with having a planner.

But a planner for me is more for organizing on a more general basis while scheduling is more specific. For example, with school in session I schedule my mornings on Mondays through Thursdays to work on homework, discussion forums, quizzes, assigned readings and whatever else there is to do.

Studying I don’t schedule because that’s just never worked for me. On Sunday evening, I go through each of my classes (this semester I have four) and see what I need to do for the week ahead. I don’t assign days to each class, but instead work on things in groups and as I get to it. Once I’m done with my college work, then I’ll allow my blog time. Housework is on it’s own schedule and I’m fortunate enough that Kyle and I pretty much split housework 50/50.

Of course, my schedule is also subject to change on a minute to minute basis depending on what Squeaker needs.

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3- Having “me time” or doing something that’s just for you, I think is critical.

I’m not talking about hanging out with friends or going out on a date with your significant other/spouse but having something that’s just for you. Every Thursday night, I have choir rehearsal. This is my “me time” and I also include church on Sunday. Having this break from the kiddos, from the blog, from school- I need this.

4- Eating healthy and drinking the right things is also important for me in maintaining balance.

Sometimes I think it might be easier to just skip a meal or grab that sugary snack but I will feel it later on. Eating healthier and maintaining a proper diet is something that I’m working on this year, not just for myself but for everyone in my life.  Overall fitness (mental, physical, emotional, etc) is another aspect of my life that I plan on working on this year.

5- Finally, I remind myself about my long term goals, end goals, career goals, etc.

I need to keep things in perspective to keep myself on track. That means ignoring Facebook for extended periods of time or putting off a blog post because I need to get school work done.. or because Squeaker wants to play. In my list of priorities, family always comes first. School is second. Blogging is third. If I wasn’t in school, my priorities would be slightly different. Only in that, blogging would be second if I didn’t have a part time job from home.

Other things I can do to help balance my life? Take breaks. Laugh. Take a nap. Go outside. Enjoy a favorite cup of tea. Sometimes it’s all about the little things that help restore balance. A little me time and self care go a long way.

I can look back on this and say that not too much has changed. Except I’m no longer pursuing a college degree. I am, however, pursuing various professional certifications to grow my business. But that is truly another post for another day.

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What about you? How do you balance your life?

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Kori

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Kori is an autistic mom who also happens to have ADHD and Anxiety. She is currently located in Albany, NY where she is raising a neurodivergent family. Her older daughter is non-speaking autistic (and also has ADHD and Anxiety) and her youngest daughter is HSP/Gifted. As an empath, HSP, and highly intuitive individual, Kori brings her own life experiences as an autistic woman combined with her adventures in momming to bring you the day-to-day of her life at home. Kori provides life coaching services for neurodivergent women (and those who identify as women) as well as Oracle card reading, Tarot card readings, and energy healing.
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Nicole
6 years ago

My kiddo has autism too and his whole life is scheduled and ours around his schedule. I would love to do something that is completely unscheduled or planned.

Krystal
6 years ago

Thanks so much for this post! I try to maintain a balance in my life, but the scale still frequently tips! =D

Olivia Schwab
6 years ago

These are such great tips! I try my best to have a balanced life everyday and these tips will definitely help with that! Love it!

lisa
6 years ago

These are great tips. I am finally starting to balance my days but it has taken half a school year (kids school year) for me to get there!

Robin (Masshole Mommy)
Robin (Masshole Mommy)
6 years ago

I would be lost without my planner. I need to see everything in writing for it to actually get done.

Liz Mays
6 years ago

I guess I don’t actively attempt to balance my life. It just kind of happens. If I make a schedule, however, I do follow it strictly.

Nina Say
6 years ago

The planner tip is one of my favorite ones! I have multiple planners and calendars lol. I guess I’m a little type-a?

Bonnie @ wemake7
Bonnie @ wemake7
6 years ago

I balance life by spending less time on my blog this year and more time with family. Planners are a great idea and I own a couple myself. Great tips!

Rosey
Rosey
6 years ago

I find me time sometimes. I tend to overextend myself in every area of my life by choice, but sometimes I’ve got to just take the me time.

Courtney
Courtney
6 years ago

Yes!!! Fantastic tips!!!! Eating healthy is really important!!! Tweeking it just the slightest bit can totally change your life 😉

Tamika
6 years ago

I love my planner and need it to make sure I get everything done. I also have a Whiteboard that I plan the household daily, so nothing get’s left out.

Cherri Megasko
6 years ago

I think #5 may be the most difficult for many people. As we get marred down in our day-to-day lives and priorities, it’s very easy to lose track of our long-term goals. My husband and I sit down regularly and talk about how we spend our time to see if we are making good process towards those goals. If we’re not, we re-prioritize our daily activities.

Debi
6 years ago

I am bad at finding balance. My plate is pretty much over flowing and something always has to give. I need to try these tips to find a bit more balance.

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