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If you worry that your child isn’t doing as well as they could be in school, then you will know how concerning this can be. You may worry that this is going to have a knock-on effect on their education and that they are going to end up missing out on valuable opportunities later in life. Although this may be true, you can turn things around by taking action right now.

 

Teach your Child about Failure

 

One of the things that you need to teach your child is that failure is a stepping stone to success. Any skill requires you to have a period of incompetence before you can become accomplished. What’s more, is that if you encourage your child to increase their failure rate by persisting, you can help them to become successful. If your child has a fear of failure then you need to try and teach them to push through and to get to the point where they can eventually become skillful. If you can do this and if you can encourage your child to develop important traits then this will help them out going forward. One way you can give them support would be for you to tell them about your failures and how you managed to overcome them.  Explain early on that everyone has different talents and that not everyone can get a trophy. If you over-praise then your child may get a knock to their confidence when they realize that they aren’t as good as they thought they were, and this can impact them later down the line.

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Make it Fun to Learn

 

Another thing you need to do is try and make it fun to learn. Learning is way harder if it feels like a chore. A lot of people have mental blocks when it comes to math at school, and a lot of this comes down to people not liking math. Psychologists have shown time and time again that if you are in a good mood, then this makes it easier to learn and it also makes children more willing to persist at a task that they find difficult. If you can encourage learning then this will make everything else fall into place. If your child is having a hard time with math then remember, you can hire a math tutor. Math tutors are great at helping to simplify complex calculations, so make sure that you keep that in mind.

 

Encourage them to Follow their Passion

 

You don’t have to be good at everything. It’s important to be good at a few things instead.  If your child has a real passion for English then don’t be afraid to encourage them in this subject. Parents often feel the need to focus on topics that their kids are bad at so that they can become all-rounders. This isn’t necessarily what you want to do. Encourage them in a way that they love and make sure that you are pushing them toward education, in a topic they enjoy. If you can do this then they will become great at a few topics, rather than just average at everything, which is so much more important when it comes to confidence.

 

Make Subjects feel Relevant

 

It’s often difficult for a child to sit and focus on a topic if they don’t enjoy it. They can’t see how it is relevant to their life or how they are going to use it in the future. Some subjects are branded in their heads as being stuff they have to do to keep the adults in their lives happy. This isn’t what you want, so make sure that you support your child and that you tell them why it’s important and how it is going to benefit them. If you can do this then you are bound to reap the benefits.

 

Play Games

 

If you can turn learning into a game then this will help your children quite a lot. At the end of the day, children are hard-wired to play, and they will respond to things much faster if they are given the chance to delve deep into fun things. If you have kids who are struggling with English then play Hangman or even Scrabble. The great thing about doing this is that your child doesn’t feel like they are learning but in reality, they are learning far more than they would when compared to sitting down in a classroom setting. The more you can encourage your kids in this way, the better, so be mindful of that if you can. 

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Kori

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Kori is a late diagnosed autistic/ADHD mom. She is currently located in Albany, NY where she is raising a neurodiverse family. Her older daughter is non-speaking autistic (and also has ADHD and Anxiety) and her youngest daughter is HSP/Gifted. A blogger, podcaster, writer, product creator, and coach; Kori shares autism family life- the highs, lows, messy, and real. Kori brings her own life experiences as an autistic woman combined with her adventures in momming to bring you the day-to-day of her life at home. Kori is on a mission to empower moms of autistic children to make informed parenting decisions with confidence and conviction.

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