The Benefits of Visual Supports for Autistic Children
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The Benefits of Visual Supports for Autistic Children

Whether you are using them as a visual schedule or to support a child in the classroom, you’re likely familiar with the benefits of visual supports for autistic children. These free printable resources for autistic children and their families are invaluable when it comes to the day-to-day. What are Visual Supports and How Do You Use Them? A visual support simply refers to using a picture or other item to communicate with a child who has difficulty understanding or using language. Visual supports can be: When it comes to children on the autism spectrum, visual supports often serve one of two purposes: Visual supports can be used with any age and can be used by teachers, parents, or other caregivers as well.  Why are visual supports so…

30 Days of Self Care Ideas for Busy Moms

30 Days of Self Care Ideas for Busy Moms

Sometimes we think self-care is being selfish. But, let’s face it– as moms? We need to make time for self-care. Here are 30 days of self-care ideas for busy moms to use. Follow the suggestions or switch them out for your own ideas. How to Create a Self-Care Plan that Works for You as a Busy Mom Self-care isn’t a one-size-fits-all type of deal. Just as each person is unique, self-care plans should be individualized as well. When pursuing a plan for self-care, it’s necessary to analyze your current lifestyle, answer a few questions and make a few decisions. Know your why The first step to developing your self-care plan, is to know why you need to have this plan in the first place. What…

How to Silence the Nagging Mom Guilt after an Autism Diagnosis
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How to Silence the Nagging Mom Guilt after an Autism Diagnosis

One of the main things that I struggled with after my daughter was diagnosed was mom guilt after the autism diagnosis. To be perfectly honest? There are still days that I struggle with this. It wasn’t just limited to the initial autism diagnosis, as I’ve come to learn. Did I Cause My Child’s Autism? I can’t tell you the number of times I asked myself this question and I can tell you this:  You did not cause your child’s autism. Autism is a developmental disability and a neurological disorder.  In the 1950s and 1960s, the term “refrigerator mothers” was used. Parents, and in particular moms, were accused of causing their child’s autism. Child psychologist, Bruno Bettelheim came up the term to describe moms who are emotionally unavailable….

How to Use a Weighted Blanket For Calming an Autism Meltdown

How to Use a Weighted Blanket For Calming an Autism Meltdown

There has been a lot of buzz around using weighted blankets for soothing anxiety or getting a better night’s rest. As a mom of an autistic child, I can tell you– believe the hype! Here’s how to use a weighted blanket for calming an autism meltdown. Incorporate this or add it on to one of these calming strategies for autism meltdowns. How a Weighted Blanket is Beneficial for Calming Meltdowns First, let’s talk about those weighted blankets. A weighted blanket is a blanket that is filled or lined with evenly distributed weight. The weight will vary depending on the intended user and the size of the blanket. The blanket’s purpose is to mimic a feeling of being held or applying needed pressure. One of the biggest benefits…

How Do You Handle Special Needs Parent Isolation?

How Do You Handle Special Needs Parent Isolation?

Before I had two children with disabilities, I had it all figured out. We would do playdates at the local parks, host birthday parties at home, I would be on the PTA.. I had it all figured out. But then, things changed and my plans didn’t exactly line up with how I envisioned they would. Instead, I started to wonder how to handle the isolation of parenting disabled children.  Because, dear friends, that is one thing they really don’t tell you when your child receives their diagnosis: how to handle special needs parent isolation. What They Don’t Tell You About Special Needs Parent Isolation When my daughter was diagnosed, I had some inkling of what to expect. We would go through a series of evaluations…

First Birthday Party on a Budget

First Birthday Party on a Budget

Are you overwhelmed with planning your child’s first birthday party? From the food, to the decorations, to the picture perfect first birthday party outfit; here are my best tips for creating a memorable first birthday party on a budget. Squeaker turned one year old in December of 2014. Kyle and I had already decided that we aren’t going to have a huge birthday party for her, mostly because she’s not going to remember. In all honesty, I think that first birthday parties are more for the parents and adults than the birthday child, but that’s just my opinion. Still, we did want to celebrate her special day, but we also wanted to do it without breaking the bank. As a one income family (or at…