How to Help Your Autistic Child Make Friends

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Simple things like making small-talk or even starting a conversation can be excruciatingly painful for autistic children. Social skills are not always easy and many children on the spectrum have difficulties in this area. This impacts many areas of their lives and hinders their ability to make friends.

So how do we, as parents, help our autistic child make friends? Well, aside from modeling this type of activity, we can also provide them with conversational starter cards. 

How to Teach Autistic Children to Make Friends

Learning how to build friendships can be difficult. Not just for our autistic children, but for anyone. However, when your social skills are limited, this becomes increasingly difficult.

It may be difficult for your child to make the necessary small talk to figure out common interests and similar experiences. Your child may react unexpectedly when approached by a peer, which may result in peers avoiding your child.

For many children, there are IEP goals written in to address social skills. Some of these may involve: taking turns, how to use manners, and identifying moods.

Other important social skills include how to initiate and/or respond to a conversation.

How to Teach Conversation Skills to Autistic Children

The simple task of initiating a conversation is intimidating when you don’t know where to start. But how do you answer additional questions? How can you possibly prepare your child for these conversations?

One suggestion is to use American Sign Language:

Another option is to use printable conversation cards. I have included a free set of printable conversation cards in my Social Skills for Autism toolkit.

One way to help your child with social skills, including all of the ones mentioned above, is by participating in a playdate. Whether this playdate occurs with a neurotypical child or with another peer on the autism spectrum; there is much to be learned at a playdate.

The Social Skills for Autism Toolkit

Teaching social skills is a breeze with the social skills for autism toolkit. Introduce basic concepts such as using manners and conversation skills.



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Kori is a late diagnosed neurodivergent mom. She is currently located in Albany, NY where she is raising a neurodiverse family. Her older daughter is non-speaking autistic (and also has ADHD and Anxiety) and her youngest daughter is HSP/Gifted. A blogger, podcaster, writer, and coach; Kori shares neurodivergent life in a neurotypical world while helping others to do the same. As an empath, HSP, and highly intuitive individual, Kori brings her own life experiences as an autistic woman combined with her adventures in momming to bring you the day-to-day of her life at home. Kori is on a mission to empower moms of autistic children to make informed parenting decisions with confidence and conviction.

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