Finding Peace in a Five Second Pause: Why You Need This Break

Finding Peace in a Five Second Pause: Why You Need This Break

How many times have you said to your child: stop, think about this. Or, stop and wait. We, as parents, are so mindful of when our children need that pause. That powerful five second pause. And I don’t just mean with the five second rule. So why don’t we, as adults, take a five second pause? When children are younger and their brains are still developing, this five seconds of processing time gives them the time that they need to think, process, form words, and verbalize. And when used in day-to-day situations, we set our children up for more positive interactions. It’s really high time that we, as parents, start incorporating this five second pause into our time management strategies. You may also like: Reclaiming…

Sensory Friendly Halloween Slime

Sensory Friendly Halloween Slime

After giving the Fall leaves slime a try, we started looking for more easy slime ideas. I’m still warming up to it, to be honest. But, I caught myself the other day.  I was cleaning up after my five year old, and a tiny piece of the slime can be pretty stress relieving. I’m not so sure about getting my hands in like she does, but you’ll never know! How to Make Halloween Slime I know my way around some crafts, that’s for sure. But others? Not so much. My daughter loves hands-on activities though and while I’m happy to find them and print them out for her? Sometimes I view this more as an opportunity for her to engage in some independent play. However,…

How to Create a To Do List That Works For You (Not Against You)

How to Create a To Do List That Works For You (Not Against You)

I’ve struggled with time management practically all of my life. And it’s only recently that I’ve come to realize that this more than likely has to do with executive functioning issues as a neurodivergent adult. Who knew? I have tried system after system and while I have come up with a somewhat functional time management system as a stay at home mom? I know that there’s always room for improvement. The Power of a Well Created To Do List that Works for You  With the time management systems (and numerous planners) that I’ve tried before? I’ve come to learn a few things. I do not function well with an hourly schedule/hourly increments printed out. I need flexibility to move things around I need a focus…

How to Create a Bill Paying System that Makes Sense

How to Create a Bill Paying System that Makes Sense

Staying up to date with my bills is not my strong suit. I am an adult, yes. But remembering to pay things on time? Not always done. And this just leads to additional stress because I’m worried that I won’t have the money to pay. Then I get worried about falling behind. Then I get worried about going into debt.  Just thinking about it is starting to give me anxiety.  One of the reasons I struggle with this? I have so much paper clutter around, it’s ridiculous.  This bill paying issue, for me, is threefold: money, time, and organization. I needed a bill paying system that worked and in order for it to work? I needed a system that incorporated time and organization.  Why you…

Playing A Proactive Role In Homework And Learning

Children with learning disabilities need to have their minds opened in a different way. School work has to be completed the same time and with the same level of expectancies their teachers want. Granted that special schools and tutors will of course cater to autistic children, but we must keep the standards high as we can. This will help the child be more successful in life and give them challenges to try and complete. Sometimes boredom can make things worse, so allowing their minds to figure out problems and helping them along the way can be really healthy. But parents must play a more proactive role when it comes to helping autistic children with homework. It’s not a case of sitting them down and checking…

How to Set Up a Super Effective School Planner for Your Child

How to Set Up a Super Effective School Planner for Your Child

Aside from hormone changes, your autistic tween is undergoing a lot of change when they enter middle school. Just think about it. They’ve had structure when they were in elementary school and are now expected to manage more on their own. So what can we, as parents of autistic children, do to best support them through this difficult time? It’s more than just organization and planning. It’s developing an effective planning system.  And, let’s face it, back to school planning is just as much as it is for us as it is for them.  How to Set Up an Effective Planning System for Your Autistic Tween or Teen How to Set Up a Planner that Works for Your Autistic Tween An effective planning system starts…