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Child psychology experts agree that children should be able to express themselves in the way they decorate their rooms. Giving your child the freedom to create their own environment is an effective way of making them feel comfortable in their own space and showing that you trust their decision-making. Here are some of the main benefits of letting them help decorate their bedrooms.


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Learn To Put Your Foot Down


Letting your child decorate their own bedroom can be a good way to introduce or cement some positive family values. However, this doesn’t mean that you have to give up your supervisory responsibilities as a parent. Different families have their own rules and values. 


Differences in social, economic, and religious factors among others, can affect family values in different ways. It is wise to sit down and talk to your child about these considerations before tackling decorating. 


As a parent, you are able to shut down an idea from your child if you think it is outrageous. According to experts, you should exercise your right to put your foot down after carefully thinking about whether you are doing it for yourself or for your child. Let their bedroom be a reflection of their personality, and not yours. 


Helps Your Child In Future Decision-Making


Letting your child take the time to consider their options and make a final decision is important. Wallpapers and color schemes are things that can’t be changed on a regular basis, just because they don’t like it after a few weeks. 


It is important to make sure that your children understand the importance of their decisions and standing by them. This helps to build good character in your child when making important decisions in the future. Give them more, if they need it, before carrying out their choice.


Helps You To Understand Your Child Better


According to experts, you should be looking out for behavior in your child that is age-appropriate. Letting them decorate their own room lets you have a closer look at their behavior. Everything that your child does in relation to the environment is directly linked to what is happening in their psyche. Over time, what your child does will give you more insight into what they might be having difficulty with. 


For example, if your five-year-old choose posters of animals, and names or talks to them, after visiting the zoo, this is normal. However, if your thirteen-year-old does the same thing, this is more unusual, and you should pay some closer attention to them. 


Unleashes Creativity In Your Child


Most expert designers agree that letting your child decorate their own bedroom can lead to surprisingly effective solutions that not only save space but also express their personality and character. However young your child is, they are probably full of some big idea. Letting them decorate their own room, or at least making some of the decisions with your help, like what color to paint the walls or what flooring they want, gives them an early outlet for expressing their creativity and tastes.

It will also give them the chance to take ownership of their own space, even if that means placing artwork along the wall of their bunk beds, or designing a small reading corner they can enjoy, with a comfortable bean bag chair and bookshelf.

All of these measures combine to help your child feel proud about their space.

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Kori is a late diagnosed autistic/ADHD mom. She is currently located in Albany, NY where she is raising a neurodiverse family. Her older daughter is non-speaking autistic (and also has ADHD and Anxiety) and her youngest daughter is HSP/Gifted. A blogger, podcaster, writer, product creator, and coach; Kori shares autism family life- the highs, lows, messy, and real. Kori brings her own life experiences as an autistic woman combined with her adventures in momming to bring you the day-to-day of her life at home. Kori is on a mission to empower moms of autistic children to make informed parenting decisions with confidence and conviction.

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