Who Will Take Care of My Autistic Child When I’m Gone?

Who Will Take Care of My Autistic Child When I’m Gone?

For parents of autistic children, we may often ask ourselves: What will happen to my autistic child when I die? This is something that I ask myself, almost daily. It may seem like a harsh reality and I won’t lie to you and say that I’m completely at ease about this. I’m not. I do know that I can start planning and that I can do whatever I can to help her. And here’s just one thing that I’m doing to help prepare for her future. How to Plan for Future Care of Your Autistic Child As the parent of an autistic child, you take on many roles. You become their biggest champion, their biggest cheerleader, and sometimes you become their voice. You will more…

Why We Need Autism Acceptance and Not Just Autism Awareness

Why We Need Autism Acceptance and Not Just Autism Awareness

In 2015, I endeavored to write a series of posts called Autism A to Z.  One of those posts was written about autism acceptance. This post was created out of a frustration around autism awareness month and autism awareness day. I wondered- why. Why are we limiting this to just awareness? Why are people stopping at just creating awareness? I wish and strive for autism acceptance. Now more than ever. Beyond autism awareness and instead autism acceptance. Why is Autism Acceptance Important? April is Autism Awareness Month. But I want it to be so much more than just awareness. I wish for autism acceptance and understanding.  But how do we get to a point of autism acceptance and understanding? By continuing to raise awareness, by educating,…

What I Wish You Knew About Parenting a Non-verbal Autistic Child

What I Wish You Knew About Parenting a Non-verbal Autistic Child

Parenting is not easy, that much is true. Add in the additional challenges of parenting an autistic child, and you may be stretched to your limits. But there are a few things that I would love for you to know about parenting a nonverbal autistic child. Our story is just one of many. There are ups and downs, there are good times and there are some pretty crappy times. Nothing could have ever prepared me for this. But I wouldn’t change a thing. My Reality as a Parent of an Autistic Child If there’s anything that we can all agree on, it’s this: parenting is tough. We weren’t given manuals and sure, there might be books. But no amount of reading will ever fully prepare you…

The Importance of Visual Schedules for Non Verbal Autistic Children
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The Importance of Visual Schedules for Non Verbal Autistic Children

How to Help Non Speaking Autistic Children with Visual Schedules In the past, I’ve talked about the importance of having routines for autistic children. The predictability and structure is beneficial to them and it may help with their existing anxiety issues. It can also help with the transition back to school or between the school year and extended school year. But how do you go about setting up a daily routine? And how do you do this for a non-speaking autistic child? While I would love to tell you that it’s simple, sometimes it’s not. You can try printable visual schedules created from my free printables for autistic children or you can try an app. You can use something like PECS to start with or…

A Parent’s Guide to Executive Functioning and Autism

A Parent’s Guide to Executive Functioning and Autism

Have you ever heard of executive functioning? You may already be familiar with what it is but didn’t know that it had a specific term. But what about executive functioning and autism? What is the connection here? Often, an individual will have difficulties in this area. So let’s dive into this parent’s guide to executive functioning. What is executive functioning? Think of executive functioning as the epicenter of your brain. Or the place where you organize all of your thoughts. This is where you: Plan and prioritize Access working memory Problem solve Multi task (though not always well) And it’s with executive functioning that we are able to use verbal reasoning, develop time management strategies, and direct our attention where we need it to go. In…

How to Find Your Support Village as an Autism Mom

How to Find Your Support Village as an Autism Mom

I cannot stress enough how important it is to have a support network as a special needs parent. I could say this until I’m blue in the face and still not have said it enough. But why? Why is it so important? And what if you don’t have that in place? We are often told that it takes a village to raise a child, but what if you don’t have that village? Here’s how to find or build your support village as an autism mom. What do I do if I can’t find my village as an autism mom? One of the things I’d wish I’d know about parenting an autistic child was just how isolating this can be. Because, let’s be honest, we talk about…